COMMANDMENTS FOR TRUE LOVE
Every activity under the heavens come in seasons and times. And during the appointed time for such activity, it ought to be guided by rules, else the result is either not assured as wanted or there is anarchy both at the personal and communal levels. This is especially true in our lives as Christians when seeking to find the one true relationship we would want to end in a marriage.
Nothing has led to more confusion and discontent in marriages, and thus high divorce rates, in todays world than the lack of rules and guidance while dating and choosing our life partners. This must never be the case as Christians seeing we have a Father in heaven who has taken the time, out of sincere deep-seated love, to light our path on earth through His enduring Word.
This article lists 10 rules or commandments every believing Christian ought to bear in mind as they seek their better half in their relationships.
BIBLE VERSE FOR MEDITATION
Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart. The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and He delights in his way.(Psalm 37:4,23)
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6-7)
Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive [them], and ye shall have [them]. (Mark 11:24)
Who can find a virtuous [excellent] wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, and willingly works with her hands. She is like the merchant ships, she brings her food from afar. She also rises while it is yet night, and provides food for her household, and a portion for her maidservants. She considers a field and buys it; from her profits she plants a vineyard. She girds herself with strength, and strengthens her arms. She perceives that her merchandise is good, and her lamp does not go out by night. She stretches out her hands to the distaff, and her hand holds the spindle. She extends her hand to the poor, yes, she reaches out her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of snow for her household, for all her household is clothed with scarlet. She makes tapestry for herself; her clothing is fine linen and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sits among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies sashes for the merchants. Strength and honor are her clothing; she shall rejoice in time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness. She watches over the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many daughters have done well, But you excel them all.” Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her own works praise her in the gates. (Proverbs 31:10-31)
Every activity under the heavens come in seasons and times. And during the appointed time for such activity, it ought to be guided by rules, else the result is either not assured as wanted or there is anarchy both at the personal and communal levels. This is especially true in our lives as Christians when seeking to find the one true relationship we would want to end in a marriage.
Nothing has led to more confusion and discontent in marriages, and thus high divorce rates, in todays world than the lack of rules and guidance while dating and choosing our life partners. This must never be the case as Christians seeing we have a Father in heaven who has taken the time, out of sincere deep-seated love, to light our path on earth through His enduring Word.
This article lists 10 rules or commandments every believing Christian ought to bear in mind as they seek their better half in their relationships.
The 10 Commandments Of Finding True Love
1). Thou shalt search according to the Book, not playboy magazines.
Remember, God started this love business, not Hollywood. So use His solid reliable rule book as a compass, not Tinseltown's hollow unreliable publications.2). Thou shalt not bring old garbage into a new love hunt.
Dragging in stinking old relationships into a new partner-search spoils your love broth. Let bygones be bygones.3). Thou shalt search using the inside-out approach.
Inner enduring qualities keep a relationship (and marriage) not fleeting outward qualities. Don't let broad shoulders or sexy curves derail your love quest.4). Thou shalt search for a human being, not an angel.
Look for a mature person not a perfect human being without blemish. Even among the celestial beings class there were some angels that sinned. This is not to say you should settle for a person who deliberately falls into sin consistently without any feelings of remorse nor desires to repent from sin. Look for a mature, not necessarily perfect, person who considers the Lord in their ways.5). Thou shalt not search aimlessly without any clear standards to guide thee.
If you aim at nothing you'll hit it every time. Have clear and specific spiritual, social, and physical requirements to direct your search.6). Thou shalt search leisurely.
Don't rush your love search otherwise you'll crash head first. Take your time; this one decision will affect the rest of your life like no other.7). Thou shalt search for commitment not chemistry.
Commitment, not chemistry, makes an enduring relationship. Unions based on good chemistry only blow up as the chemical composition heats up due to the pressures of life.8). Thou shalt not spurn good old counsel.
Double check your intentions with advice from trusted mentors around you. Be humble enough to listen objectively and accept the naked truth.9). Thou shalt not be obsessed with dudes or damsels.
If you become too preoccupied with eligible bachelors or spinsters you'll attract love predators. Prioritize your relationship with Jesus instead as He'll always be there for you.10). Thou shalt seek divine assistance in thy search.
Don't forget that God wants you to meet that special person. In fact He is busy engineering circumstances in order to hook you up, so stay in touch with Him.
About the author
Pastor QT is a published author, copywriter and speaker. His sincerity, wit and candid style have endeared him to many hearts. His book DELIVERANCE UNPACKED has been warmly received globally. He conducts spicy marriage and singles seminars with his feisty wife Bonani.
Pastor QT is a published author, copywriter and speaker. His sincerity, wit and candid style have endeared him to many hearts. His book DELIVERANCE UNPACKED has been warmly received globally. He conducts spicy marriage and singles seminars with his feisty wife Bonani.
BIBLE VERSE FOR MEDITATION
Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart. The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and He delights in his way.(Psalm 37:4,23)
Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:6-7)
Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive [them], and ye shall have [them]. (Mark 11:24)
Who can find a virtuous [excellent] wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, and willingly works with her hands. She is like the merchant ships, she brings her food from afar. She also rises while it is yet night, and provides food for her household, and a portion for her maidservants. She considers a field and buys it; from her profits she plants a vineyard. She girds herself with strength, and strengthens her arms. She perceives that her merchandise is good, and her lamp does not go out by night. She stretches out her hands to the distaff, and her hand holds the spindle. She extends her hand to the poor, yes, she reaches out her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of snow for her household, for all her household is clothed with scarlet. She makes tapestry for herself; her clothing is fine linen and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sits among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies sashes for the merchants. Strength and honor are her clothing; she shall rejoice in time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness. She watches over the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many daughters have done well, But you excel them all.” Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her own works praise her in the gates. (Proverbs 31:10-31)
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